Suzie Wolfer LCSW, SEP
Founder of Oregon Somatic Therapy
Author of The Owner’s Manual for Befriending Your Body: The Nervous System Skills You Were Never Taught
I’m no longer taking new therapy clients—but the work continues in new ways.
For over three decades, I’ve helped people find their way back home to themselves. Somatic Experiencing® became the heart of that work when I began studying with Steve Hoskinson in 2010 and completed the three-year training in 2012. Since then, I’ve assisted in Somatic Experiencing® trainings throughout the West Coast and supported hundreds of students in developing the art of nervous system awareness.
Though I am no longer taking new clients, my focus now is on sharing what I’ve learned through teaching, writing, and creating resources that help others befriend their bodies, whether you’re a professional, a student of SE®, or someone on your own healing journey.
A Lifelong Love of Co-Regulation
One of the most beautiful discoveries in this work is what we call co-regulation. Healing doesn’t happen in isolation, it happens in relationship. When we track the nervous system together, ease and presence begin to emerge naturally. Rather than draining me, this kind of attunement nourishes both of us. Most days I end my work feeling more inspired than when I began.
What I’ve Learned After 30 Years of Practice
Underneath most forms of suffering, I’ve found a common thread: the body’s survival responses: fight, flight, and freeze get stuck in the “on” position.
Once we learn to listen to the body’s signals and gently guide the nervous system back to safety, everything changes.
Sleep improves. Relationships soften. Life begins to flow again.
The essence of what I teach: how to recognize your body’s own intelligence and build a working relationship with it. Because your body isn’t the problem, it’s the path home. I help people discover and use their Owner’s Manual.
What I’m Creating Now
My current work brings these teachings to a wider audience through:
- The Book: The Owner’s Manual for Befriending Your Body: The Nervous System Skills You Were Never Taught
- Free Mini-Course – Befriending Your Body: A simple introduction to understanding your nervous system in daily life
- In-Depth Befriending Your Body Course: 21 lessons in seven modules, discovering how to use your Owner’s Manual
- Professional Circle: A live small-group experience for therapists, healers, and educators who want to integrate this work with depth and authenticity
All of these offerings are designed to help you embody Polyvagal Theory in a real, human way, living with rhythm, curiosity, and compassion, and rediscovering what e.e. cummings called the courage to “grow up and turn out to be who you really are.”



